Self-Fulfillment by Serving Others
We Christians
are great at keeping certain concepts fuzzy to prevent our
having to deal with the really hard issues of life. The 2nd
Great Commandment is one of those “fuzzies.” We forget that
the specific example of the Good Samaritan was given to
illustrate “who is my neighbor.” We can only conclude that
“our neighbor” is the person that we dislike (hate?) the
most, as the Jews hated the Samaritans. That person may be
your husband or wife, child or parent, employer or employee,
a white or black person, etc.
Who is your Samaritan?
Whom do you hate? Are you doing good works for him or her?
And, if that
illustration is not sufficient, consider the most detailed
account of Christ’s final judgment (Matthew 25). Jesus does
not ask, “What do you believe, concerning salvation or any
other point of theology.” He asks specifically whom you fed,
clothed, gave drink, visited while sick or in prison, or
provide shelter. “In as much as you have done it for the
least of these my brethren, you have done it unto me!” If
the parable of the Good Samaritan is not sufficiently
specific upon which you should act, then Christ gives six
(6) specifics here.
The focus of much
psychology today is on the self: self-image,
self-gratification, self-fulfillment, and self-reflection.
Some have even severely distorted the 2nd Great
Commandment that “we must love ourselves, before we can
learn to love others.” Balderdash! We already love ourselves
far beyond any human justifiable reasons.
This psychology has
it all wrong. It is in serving others that we find
self-image, self-fulfillment, and other the other “selves”
of psychology. And, Jesus has given us such specifics
that we are without excuse.
Get outside of
yourself. Go serve someone! You may just find that many of
your “self” problems disappear with an “other” focus. And,
you will be fulfilling the 2nd Great Commandment
and the right answers to Christ’s questions on His
Final Judgment Day.